陪着女儿学琴，有一阵子了，
从叮叮当当到终于可以听到完整的一首歌,
心里是那么的感动，仿佛回到从前，圆了儿时未满的梦。
听女儿弹琴，是爸爸忙碌工作后，最期待的宁静幸福一刻了。
2009年9月25日星期五
2009年9月24日星期四
到海边玩
星期天早上起来，我提议：
到海边玩，好吗？爸爸附应，‘走咯！’
小孩开心得好像我中了马票酱，‘当然好！’
到海边玩，好吗？爸爸附应，‘走咯！’
小孩开心得好像我中了马票酱，‘当然好！’
们去Sentosa 的 Palawan 海边玩。
开始孩子俩在海滩玩沙，筑围墙，建沙堡。
妹妹听哥哥指示，合作得挺不错！
没吵架，没吵我，挺安慰的。
爸爸妈妈坐在树阴下看报看杂志偷闲，悠哉悠哉！
而后，妹妹就情不自禁跳进海里戏水了，没办法，
只好去买了一件泳衣给她。
开始孩子俩在海滩玩沙，筑围墙，建沙堡。
妹妹听哥哥指示，合作得挺不错！
没吵架，没吵我，挺安慰的。
爸爸妈妈坐在树阴下看报看杂志偷闲，悠哉悠哉！
而后，妹妹就情不自禁跳进海里戏水了，没办法，
只好去买了一件泳衣给她。
中午12点le，太阳猛到...晒黑死我了。
爸爸像大孩子酱，跟小孩玩到开心极了，他们才不怕黑！
亲近大自然，拥抱大海，海浪打在脸上，
孩子呱呱嚷叫：海水好咸叻！
（呀，真好，以后不会再问我：妈..海水是咸的吗？？？）
2009年9月17日星期四
好老师
很多时候都听到妈妈们说，大多好的老师都分到好的班级啦。。
我心里嘀咕，儿子三年来都没分在所谓的好班，可是，儿子的老师给我的印象都是一级棒呀！打从一年级到现在，孩子的老师都令我尊重。
话说，我也是紧张妈妈，也会经常写Email跟老师沟通，关心儿子的学习进展与态度。老师们都会在极短的时间给我回复，让我了解儿子的学习态度，而且也很耐心分享一些教导方针，如何开导儿子等。老师每回的热心，真的让我感激又感动。
分享一下，我跟老师的沟通
～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～
Hi, Ms Gan,
Sorry to disturb you again.Regarding Justin's today homework.
He was upset that,
1. He told me that he can't find his Journal execise book at home.So, i suggest to him write the journal on a piece of paper first and transfer to exercise book when he find it later either in school or home.
2. Then, he told me that he don't know how to write the journal. The journal 's title is 'How your friend spend his school holiday' .( roughly , i understand this through phone communication)He told me no friend like to sharing with him. Then, i ask him, did he going to talk sincerely or share with friend? this is your responsiblity to find out . Mother can not help you to ask...
3. Another Journal is "Indian music fusion ", he was dreaming during the lesson, so he don't know what to write.
Above was the communication with Justin this afternoon.I am understand , it is not easy to write Journal if you do not any idea or guideline.However,Justin is less of initiative to learn and depend to mother or teacher.Thinking mother always can help him and support him when he faces difficulties.
In this situation, i was advised him must try to do or write something about the journal by this afternoon , such as imagine your friend went to see movie or went to play at park or seaside.( just like what he did during holiday) .Then, tomorrow go to school and tell teacher what problem he was faced.
I know he is unwilling to do this but this is what mummy can help.Therefore, i wish Justin tomorrow at least can pass up his homework and understand nobody can help him if he never pay attend or follow teacher's intruction during the lesson.
Thanks for your patient to Justin.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Dear Mrs Chong,
Thank you for the inputs and I am glad too, that Justin is seeking help through alternatives instead of giving up totally and not do or do it frivously. I will look into the matter further on the part no one wants to share with him. With regards to this point, I do observed that he has friends around but perhaps, he is less initiative to make the first move.
As to the part on the Indian Fusion Dance, it was the morning assembly's program and he should have participated in it and respect the program by being attentive. This is an obvious negligence on his part and I will not condone it. However, I will talk to him and let him understand the rationale behind it. On the part of sharing his activities done during the holiday, he will still be able to write the part on 'his' own fun times during the holidays and thus at least half the work is done. I had lined out two criterias that they must fulfil in looking for friends to share. 1. Opposite sex 2. Different race.
In sharing with friends of different races and gender is to promote understanding and cultivate their personal skills with people from all walks of life. This can evidently widen their horizon and get them to mix around with different people. I would like to thank you for alerting me on Justin's difficulties and I will have a chat with him to find out more.
Please do feel free to share with me anything about Justin and I will try my best to alleviate his problems. Thank you.
Yours sincerely,
Stephanie Gan
"Smile is the only solution to a wrinkle free face. Have you smiled today?"
我心里嘀咕，儿子三年来都没分在所谓的好班，可是，儿子的老师给我的印象都是一级棒呀！打从一年级到现在，孩子的老师都令我尊重。
话说，我也是紧张妈妈，也会经常写Email跟老师沟通，关心儿子的学习进展与态度。老师们都会在极短的时间给我回复，让我了解儿子的学习态度，而且也很耐心分享一些教导方针，如何开导儿子等。老师每回的热心，真的让我感激又感动。
分享一下，我跟老师的沟通
～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～
Hi, Ms Gan,
Sorry to disturb you again.Regarding Justin's today homework.
He was upset that,
1. He told me that he can't find his Journal execise book at home.So, i suggest to him write the journal on a piece of paper first and transfer to exercise book when he find it later either in school or home.
2. Then, he told me that he don't know how to write the journal. The journal 's title is 'How your friend spend his school holiday' .( roughly , i understand this through phone communication)He told me no friend like to sharing with him. Then, i ask him, did he going to talk sincerely or share with friend? this is your responsiblity to find out . Mother can not help you to ask...
3. Another Journal is "Indian music fusion ", he was dreaming during the lesson, so he don't know what to write.
Above was the communication with Justin this afternoon.I am understand , it is not easy to write Journal if you do not any idea or guideline.However,Justin is less of initiative to learn and depend to mother or teacher.Thinking mother always can help him and support him when he faces difficulties.
In this situation, i was advised him must try to do or write something about the journal by this afternoon , such as imagine your friend went to see movie or went to play at park or seaside.( just like what he did during holiday) .Then, tomorrow go to school and tell teacher what problem he was faced.
I know he is unwilling to do this but this is what mummy can help.Therefore, i wish Justin tomorrow at least can pass up his homework and understand nobody can help him if he never pay attend or follow teacher's intruction during the lesson.
Thanks for your patient to Justin.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Dear Mrs Chong,
Thank you for the inputs and I am glad too, that Justin is seeking help through alternatives instead of giving up totally and not do or do it frivously. I will look into the matter further on the part no one wants to share with him. With regards to this point, I do observed that he has friends around but perhaps, he is less initiative to make the first move.
As to the part on the Indian Fusion Dance, it was the morning assembly's program and he should have participated in it and respect the program by being attentive. This is an obvious negligence on his part and I will not condone it. However, I will talk to him and let him understand the rationale behind it. On the part of sharing his activities done during the holiday, he will still be able to write the part on 'his' own fun times during the holidays and thus at least half the work is done. I had lined out two criterias that they must fulfil in looking for friends to share. 1. Opposite sex 2. Different race.
In sharing with friends of different races and gender is to promote understanding and cultivate their personal skills with people from all walks of life. This can evidently widen their horizon and get them to mix around with different people. I would like to thank you for alerting me on Justin's difficulties and I will have a chat with him to find out more.
Please do feel free to share with me anything about Justin and I will try my best to alleviate his problems. Thank you.
Yours sincerely,
Stephanie Gan
"Smile is the only solution to a wrinkle free face. Have you smiled today?"
2009年9月10日星期四
话常
我实在不够体贴。二十年了还是这样，没变。
很多时候都是爸爸妈妈打电话来给我。
问我差不多一样的话：吃饭了没有？很忙呀？新加坡有下雨吗？
然后，就从有没有下雨的话题，话常下去...
Raub 最近常下雨，都没去‘芭场，得空的很...
Sungai Lui 的观音堂要重建了，村里的人都热心捐款，
多少都无所谓，保佑平安，风调雨顺。
不够的钱就由一个姓刘的有钱有心人全部负责。
哇，真难得，真热心，令人敬佩！！
很多时候都是爸爸妈妈打电话来给我。
问我差不多一样的话：吃饭了没有？很忙呀？新加坡有下雨吗？
然后，就从有没有下雨的话题，话常下去...
Raub 最近常下雨，都没去‘芭场，得空的很...
Sungai Lui 的观音堂要重建了，村里的人都热心捐款，
多少都无所谓，保佑平安，风调雨顺。
不够的钱就由一个姓刘的有钱有心人全部负责。
哇，真难得，真热心，令人敬佩！！
2009年9月4日星期五
祝福
小baby 37 周，迫不及待就出世了。
呼吸有点吃力，blood oxigen level 偏低.
医生说immuture lung、x-ray shown lung have 'white fluid'..
必须放ICU.
有懂，没懂一点,妹妹妹夫有够担心的了。
Preterm infant、Respiratory distress snydrome、lung disease、
Aiyo...上网了解一下，你就知道这是‘非常大的学问’。
越看心里只有越紧张。
可是要帮助妹妹心安下来，
就得尽量把好的例子，告诉妹妹。
减清她的操心与忧郁。
跟朋友打听,听一些经历过'早产儿’问题的爸爸妈妈，
到后来，小孩健健康康的成长。
此刻我们 就这样陪妹妹...
呼吸有点吃力，blood oxigen level 偏低.
医生说immuture lung、x-ray shown lung have 'white fluid'..
必须放ICU.
有懂，没懂一点,妹妹妹夫有够担心的了。
Preterm infant、Respiratory distress snydrome、lung disease、
Aiyo...上网了解一下，你就知道这是‘非常大的学问’。
越看心里只有越紧张。
可是要帮助妹妹心安下来，
就得尽量把好的例子，告诉妹妹。
减清她的操心与忧郁。
跟朋友打听,听一些经历过'早产儿’问题的爸爸妈妈，
到后来，小孩健健康康的成长。
此刻我们 就这样陪妹妹...
2009年9月2日星期三
祝福
親愛的小baby，
欢迎你加入我们的大家庭。
知道你有些小病，真为难你了，
但請你務必撐一下。
你的小姐姐，三个小表姐，还有Justin大表哥
整天吵着要去马六甲找你玩呢！
他们要给你很多很好玩的玩具。
阿姨们给你力量， 快快健康起来，
让妈妈爸爸抱抱你，亲亲你的小红脸。
欢迎你加入我们的大家庭。
知道你有些小病，真为难你了，
但請你務必撐一下。
你的小姐姐，三个小表姐，还有Justin大表哥
整天吵着要去马六甲找你玩呢！
他们要给你很多很好玩的玩具。
阿姨们给你力量， 快快健康起来，
让妈妈爸爸抱抱你，亲亲你的小红脸。
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